Human beings are, by design not built to be alone. Why would we have the ability to procreate. It's ridiculous. Do you see dear running around saying I need to find and love myself. Only humans do that bullshit because we need to make sense of how sad and lonely we feel inside, and pretend that we aren't complete losers. I've never seen a bird doing yoga and reading self help books on relationships, that is a fact. Stop pretending.